Comments on: Sick Of Being SAHM http://montessorimum.com/?p=5043 Our Future, Our Children Sat, 04 Sep 2010 01:10:11 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8 hourly 1 By: miche http://montessorimum.com/?p=5043&cpage=1#comment-1235960 miche Thu, 10 Dec 2009 22:26:31 +0000 http://montessorimum.com/?p=5043#comment-1235960 becoming a sahm is not bout making smarter children. it is about showering them with more love n attention n building/instilling good character in them. u maybe dun see the result now but u will soon. be patience ok. :) <strong>I feel like I have been taken for granted. Especially when my girl cheated on me when I ask her to do her work, she just want to get it done fast so that she can go play. becoming a sahm is not bout making smarter children. it is about showering them with more love n attention n building/instilling good character in them. u maybe dun see the result now but u will soon. be patience ok. :)

I feel like I have been taken for granted. Especially when my girl cheated on me when I ask her to do her work, she just want to get it done fast so that she can go play.

]]> By: Alice Law http://montessorimum.com/?p=5043&cpage=1#comment-1235959 Alice Law Thu, 10 Dec 2009 14:27:16 +0000 http://montessorimum.com/?p=5043#comment-1235959 I believe your kids are good and talented in their own ways. All parents like their children to be smart and good, but comparing them with other children doesn't do them or us any good... the only person they should compare with are themselves and their past. If you were tired, it's ok to take a break. You have already done a good job of nurturing them, don't feel regret of what you have done for them. Take a break, look for your dreams and career... it's ok. <strong>If i could take a break, i would. But I do not have a choice. Baby #4 is on her way, I will still be stuck at home for at least 2 years. Sometimes I feel that she is the one that is holding me up for pursuing what I want and have planned to do. To be frank, my acceptance for her is 50/50 since she is a unplanned baby. Shall see if I can love her as much when she is out from the tummy. I believe your kids are good and talented in their own ways.

All parents like their children to be smart and good, but comparing them with other children doesn’t do them or us any good… the only person they should compare with are themselves and their past.

If you were tired, it’s ok to take a break. You have already done a good job of nurturing them, don’t feel regret of what you have done for them. Take a break, look for your dreams and career… it’s ok.

If i could take a break, i would. But I do not have a choice. Baby #4 is on her way, I will still be stuck at home for at least 2 years. Sometimes I feel that she is the one that is holding me up for pursuing what I want and have planned to do. To be frank, my acceptance for her is 50/50 since she is a unplanned baby. Shall see if I can love her as much when she is out from the tummy.

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